Today, March 8, 2021, is International Women’s Day. It’s a day to celebrate all the achievements of women across the world, all the contributions made to social, economic, cultural and political advancements. It is a time to celebrate women and the positive difference we have made for the world, to honor the women who have made a positive difference for all of us. Who is your mentor? So many women have made an impact on our lives, and will continue to do so.
The theme for the 2021 International Women’s Day is #ChoosetoChallenge. Challenge brings change, giving us a way to help make the world more inclusive and a better place to live. It can also be a way for us to challenge ourselves to look at what we offer the world, what our purpose is, to build each other up. I am one of five children, but an only daughter. Not having a sister growing up, I felt special as my brothers share their rooms. As I grew older, I realized all I missed in not having a built-in best friend. My husband is an only son with three sisters. I watch their relationships and realize the camaraderie I missed. As a result, my girlfriends are very important to me. Many women build circles of friendships that are unbreakable as they care for and support each other. I have friends that I consider “sisters” in my life from college days, young motherhood, church, neighbors, and now from leading retreats. Each friendship is dear to me, and as I grow older, I value each one more. I have missed seeing them in person during the pandemic, but I have been able to continue our connections through phone calls, FaceTime, Zoom, texting, and sharing photos. It will be a great time when we can share much needed hugs, hopefully before too long.
Women’s circles have been developed for churches, volunteers, and neighborhoods. Successful women are often a part of a circle of women who have each other’s best interests at heart. My challenge to you today is to look at your circles and see where you have a group of women who are there for you, and you are there for them. Where you can be yourself and still be accepted. We are all so much more than the sum of descriptors. Pick up the phone and let them know how much they are appreciated. Our community is what keeps the world spinning.
Please share in the comments below a story about a woman who has made a difference in your life. We are all in this together.
